Drink Devotional Method: The Wisdom Behind Controlling My Anger (Proverbs 11)

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Today, we turn to Proverbs chapter 11—a chapter rich in practical wisdom that shows the clear contrast between righteousness and wickedness. This chapter reminds us that God delights in uprightness and justice, and it urges us to walk in integrity even when the world around us chooses otherwise.

D – Devotional Reading

Proverbs 11 (KJV)

1 A false balance is abomination to the Lord: but a just weight is his delight.
2 When pride cometh, then cometh shame: but with the lowly is wisdom.
3 The integrity of the upright shall guide them: but the perverseness of transgressors shall destroy them.
4 Riches profit not in the day of wrath: but righteousness delivereth from death.
5 The righteousness of the perfect shall direct his way: but the wicked shall fall by his own wickedness.
6 The righteousness of the upright shall deliver them: but transgressors shall be taken in their own naughtiness.
7 When a wicked man dieth, his expectation shall perish: and the hope of unjust men perisheth.
8 The righteous is delivered out of trouble, and the wicked cometh in his stead.
9 An hypocrite with his mouth destroyeth his neighbour: but through knowledge shall the just be delivered.
10 When it goeth well with the righteous, the city rejoiceth: and when the wicked perish, there is shouting.
11 By the blessing of the upright the city is exalted: but it is overthrown by the mouth of the wicked.
12 He that is void of wisdom despiseth his neighbour: but a man of understanding holdeth his peace.
13 A talebearer revealeth secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter.
14 Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety.
15 He that is surety for a stranger shall smart for it: and he that hateth suretiship is sure.
16 A gracious woman retaineth honour: and strong men retain riches.
17 The merciful man doeth good to his own soul: but he that is cruel troubleth his own flesh.
18 The wicked worketh a deceitful work: but to him that soweth righteousness shall be a sure reward.
19 As righteousness tendeth to life: so he that pursueth evil pursueth it to his own death.
20 They that are of a froward heart are abomination to the Lord: but such as are upright in their way are his delight.
21 Though hand join in hand, the wicked shall not be unpunished: but the seed of the righteous shall be delivered.
22 As a jewel of gold in a swine’s snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion.
23 The desire of the righteous is only good: but the expectation of the wicked is wrath.
24 There is that scattereth, and yet increaseth; and there is that withholdeth more than is meet, but it tendeth to poverty.
25 The liberal soul shall be made fat: and he that watereth shall be watered also himself.
26 He that withholdeth corn, the people shall curse him: but blessing shall be upon the head of him that selleth it.
27 He that diligently seeketh good procureth favour: but he that seeketh mischief, it shall come unto him.
28 He that trusteth in his riches shall fall: but the righteous shall flourish as a branch.
29 He that troubleth his own house shall inherit the wind: and the fool shall be servant to the wise of heart.
30 The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life; and he that winneth souls is wise.
31 Behold, the righteous shall be recompensed in the earth: much more the wicked and the sinner.

R – Reflection

Proverbs 11 teaches me what pleases the Lord: honesty, integrity, humility, and compassion. But verse 12 stands out to me personally:

“He that is void of wisdom despiseth his neighbour: but a man of understanding holdeth his peace.”

This verse pierces my heart. I realize that when I quickly become upset or speak harshly, it’s not a display of strength—but a lack of wisdom. God shows that understanding is seen not in how loudly I respond, but in how humbly I hold my peace. Silence, when Spirit-led, is not weakness—it is wisdom.

There are moments when I feel justified in my anger or quick reaction, but God's Word reveals that restraint is actually the fruit of a wise and Spirit-filled heart. To “hold my peace” is to let God take control of my tongue and temper.

I – Instruction

God is calling me to:

• Guard my reactions and stop seeing outbursts as acceptable (v. 12).

• Practice self-control as a mark of understanding.

• Pursue peace with my neighbor instead of letting anger lead to despising them.

• Sow righteousness with my words—being careful not to destroy but to edify (v. 9).

I must remember that being easily provoked is not a personality trait to tolerate—it is a spiritual weakness that I must surrender to God. If I truly follow Christ, then His character—especially His peace—should be reflected in me. The Lord desires to increase His peace within me as I learn to suppress and surrender my impulse to react in anger, allowing His Spirit to rule over my emotions.

N – Now Live It

Today, I will practice silence over reaction. When I feel offended or provoked, I will pause and pray before I speak. I will not despise others in my heart, even when they fail me. Instead, I will ask God to give me understanding and grace. If I feel anger rising, I’ll remember: “A man of understanding holdeth his peace.”

This is where I must decrease—not just in actions, but in my inner responses—so Christ’s character may increase and shine through me.

K – Kneel in Prayer

Gracious Lord, I confess my quick temper and harsh words. Forgive me for the times I’ve spoken without wisdom or despised others in my heart. Fill me with understanding that leads to peace. Teach me to be quiet when my flesh wants to shout. Help me to live in Your righteousness—not in reaction, but in reflection of Your grace. O Lord, let Your Spirit reign in my emotions and responses. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

If you are blessed with our devotion today, you may also read our Proverbs 10 Devotion. Thank you!

What is DRINK Devotional Method?

The DRINK Devotional Method is a structured personal devotional approach designed to help believers engage with Scripture to intentionally walk and grow daily with Christ. Each letter in DRINK stands for a step while doing your silent moment with the scripture:

• • D – Devotional Reading: Read the selected Bible passage slowly and reverently (Preferably at least 1 chapter).

  • R – Reflection: Meditate on the truths revealed and how they apply to our walk with God.

  • I – Instruction: Identify key lessons, commands, or promises to follow or hold onto.

  • N – Now Live It: Commit to a specific action or change based on what God has shown.

  • K – Kneel in Prayer: Close with a sincere prayer, asking the Lord for grace to live out His Word.

Whether you’re just starting a daily devotional habit or seeking a more meaningful Christian devotional routine, DRINK offers a simple yet powerful guide to draw closer to God and let His Word shape your life.