Drink Devotional Method: The Virtue of Godly Womanhood (Proverbs 31)

Today, we turn to Proverbs chapter 31. This final chapter of Proverbs offers us two powerful teachings: first, the wise counsel of a mother to her royal son, and second, the celebrated portrait of a virtuous woman whose life reflects strength, wisdom, and the fear of the Lord. It calls me to reflect not only on the value of godly womanhood but also on how I honor and uphold such virtue in my daily life. Whether I lead, serve, support, or aspire, this chapter challenges and inspires me to walk in godly excellence.

D – Devotional Reading

Proverbs 31 (KJV)

1 The words of king Lemuel, the prophecy that his mother taught him.
2 What, my son? and what, the son of my womb? and what, the son of my vows?
3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.
4 It is not for kings, O Lemuel, it is not for kings to drink wine; nor for princes strong drink:
5 Lest they drink, and forget the law, and pervert the judgment of any of the afflicted.
6 Give strong drink unto him that is ready to perish, and wine unto those that be of heavy hearts.
7 Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery no more.
8 Open thy mouth for the dumb in the cause of all such as are appointed to destruction.
9 Open thy mouth, judge righteously, and plead the cause of the poor and needy.
10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

R – Reflection

As I read Proverbs 31, my heart stands in awe of the picture painted here—a woman of such strength, grace, and godliness that her worth is described as far above rubies. This chapter reminds me not just of what a virtuous woman looks like, but also of how God values character over charm, and faithfulness over fame. I realize that these qualities don’t come by accident—they come from fearing the Lord, walking with Him daily, and living intentionally.

Whether I am a husband admiring a godly wife, a woman striving to live virtuously, or someone who simply wants to honor God with my life, this passage offers rich truth. The virtuous woman is not defined by her possessions or physical beauty, but by her work ethic, wisdom, compassion, and reverence for the Lord. That challenges me to reflect on where I place my value and how I serve others with the gifts God has given me.

I – Instruction

Identify key lessons, commands, or promises to follow or hold onto.

God exalts godly womanhood as a high calling. Proverbs 31 teaches that true worth comes from character anchored in the fear of the Lord—not outward appearance. The command is implicit: pursue a life marked by diligence, kindness, faithfulness, and reverence for God. It also instructs us to honor and value those who live in such a way, for “a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised” (v. 30).

N – Now Live It

Today, I will choose to honor the godly women in my life—those who quietly lead their homes, serve others, and walk with God faithfully. If I am a woman, I will strive to cultivate the same virtues seen in this passage: wise speech, diligent labor, compassion for the needy, and the fear of the Lord. If I am a man, I will praise and support such women, especially within my family and church. We all have a role in upholding and modeling godly character.

K – Kneel in Prayer

Heavenly Father, Thank You for this powerful picture of godly womanhood. I praise You for the women who live out these virtues with grace and strength. Help me reflect these traits in my own life—whether through diligent work, kind words, or reverence for You. Remind me that true beauty is found in fearing You and walking in obedience. Teach me to honor those who serve faithfully and to become someone whose life points others to Christ. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

You may also read our Proverbs 30 Devotional.

🌿 About the DRINK Devotional Method

The DRINK Devotional Method is a structured personal devotional approach designed to help believers engage with Scripture to intentionally walk and grow daily with Christ. Each letter in DRINK stands for a step while doing your silent moment with scripture:

• D – Devotional Reading: Read the selected Bible passage slowly and reverently (preferably at least 1 chapter).

• R – Reflection: Meditate on the truths revealed and how they apply to our walk with God.

• I – Instruction: Identify key lessons, commands, or promises to follow or hold onto.

• N – Now Live It: Commit to a specific action or change based on what God has shown.

• K – Kneel in Prayer: Close with a sincere prayer, asking the Lord for grace to live out His Word.

Whether you're just starting a daily devotional habit or seeking a more meaningful Christian devotional routine, DRINK offers a simple yet powerful guide to draw closer to God and let His Word shape your life.

You may also read my Daily Devotions here.

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