Drink Devotional Method: The Power of Peaceful Words (Proverbs 17)

Today, we turn to Proverbs chapter 17 to reflect on the wisdom of peaceful words, patient restraint, and the blessings of a quiet spirit. Let us read and meditate together.

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D – Devotional Reading

Proverbs 17 – King James Version (KJV) 1 Better is a dry morsel, and quietness therewith, than an house full of sacrifices with strife. 2 A wise servant shall have rule over a son that causeth shame, and shall have part of the inheritance among the brethren. 3 The fining pot is for silver, and the furnace for gold: but the Lord trieth the hearts. 4 A wicked doer giveth heed to false lips; and a liar giveth ear to a naughty tongue. 5 Whoso mocketh the poor reproacheth his Maker: and he that is glad at calamities shall not be unpunished. 6 Children's children are the crown of old men; and the glory of children are their fathers. 7 Excellent speech becometh not a fool: much less do lying lips a prince. 8 A gift is as a precious stone in the eyes of him that hath it: whithersoever it turneth, it prospereth. 9 He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends. 10 A reproof entereth more into a wise man than an hundred stripes into a fool. 11 An evil man seeketh only rebellion: therefore a cruel messenger shall be sent against him. 12 Let a bear robbed of her whelps meet a man, rather than a fool in his folly. 13 Whoso rewardeth evil for good, evil shall not depart from his house. 14 The beginning of strife is as when one letteth out water: therefore leave off contention, before it be meddled with. 15 He that justifieth the wicked, and he that condemneth the just, even they both are abomination to the Lord. 16 Wherefore is there a price in the hand of a fool to get wisdom, seeing he hath no heart to it? 17 A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. 18 A man void of understanding striketh hands, and becometh surety in the presence of his friend. 19 He loveth transgression that loveth strife: and he that exalteth his gate seeketh destruction. 20 He that hath a froward heart findeth no good: and he that hath a perverse tongue falleth into mischief. 21 He that begetteth a fool doeth it to his sorrow: and the father of a fool hath no joy. 22 A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones. 23 A wicked man taketh a gift out of the bosom to pervert the ways of judgment. 24 Wisdom is before him that hath understanding; but the eyes of a fool are in the ends of the earth. 25 A foolish son is a grief to his father, and bitterness to her that bare him. 26 Also to punish the just is not good, nor to strike princes for equity. 27 He that hath knowledge spareth his words: and a man of understanding is of an excellent spirit. 28 Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.

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R – Reflection

As I read Proverbs 17, I find myself drawn to the contrast between strife and peace. A “dry morsel with quietness” (v.1) sounds far more inviting than a feast filled with tension. Peaceful words calm storms before they rise, and restraint (especially in speech) reflects wisdom and maturity (v.27–28). This chapter reminds me that a merry heart and gracious communication not only uplift others but also nurture my own soul (v.22). I’ve seen how easily harsh words break relationships, yet how healing a gentle reply can be. God honors hearts that seek reconciliation, even when it costs pride.

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I – Instruction

God’s Word teaches us to value peace over pride, and restraint over rashness. Proverbs 17:14 warns that the beginning of strife is like letting out water—it’s better to walk away early than let tension boil. Verse 27 instructs us that those with understanding choose their words carefully and carry an excellent spirit. God is pleased when we pursue unity, speak wisely, and avoid stirring conflict. This is not optional—it is a standard for Christian living.

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N – Now Live It

Today, I will be intentional in speaking words that heal rather than harm. Before I respond, I will pause and pray for wisdom. Whether in my home, church, or workplace, I will prioritize peace. If I find myself in a potential argument, I’ll remember Proverbs 17:14 and choose to step away rather than escalate. I will seek to build bridges with those I may have strained relationships with and avoid spreading or entertaining gossip. Peace begins with me.

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K – Kneel in Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for the wisdom in Proverbs 17. Fill my heart with joy, and guard my lips with grace. Help me treasure peace more than pride. Give me the strength to walk away from strife and the courage to speak truth with love. Let my words reflect Christ, and may my actions inspire peace in my family and community. Lord, create in me an excellent spirit—one that honors You in all things. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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You may also read our Proverbs 16 Devotional.

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What is DRINK Devotional Method?

The DRINK Devotional Method is a structured personal devotional approach designed to help believers engage with Scripture to intentionally walk and grow daily with Christ. Each letter in DRINK stands for a step while doing your silent moment with the scripture:

• D – Devotional Reading: Read the selected Bible passage slowly and reverently (Preferably at least 1 chapter).
• R – Reflection: Meditate on the truths revealed and how they apply to our walk with God.
• I – Instruction: Identify key lessons, commands, or promises to follow or hold onto.
• N – Now Live It: Commit to a specific action or change based on what God has shown.
• K – Kneel in Prayer: Close with a sincere prayer, asking the Lord for grace to live out His Word.

Whether you’re just starting a daily devotional habit or seeking a more meaningful Christian devotional routine, DRINK offers a simple yet powerful guide to draw closer to God and let His Word shape your life.

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