Drink Devotional Method: The Power of Humility and Restraint (Proverbs 25)

Today, we turn to Proverbs chapter 25—a treasure trove of Solomon’s proverbs, also copied by the men of Hezekiah, king of Judah. This chapter offers wisdom on leadership, restraint, relationships, and the value of timely words. Let us read it with reverence and a heart ready to be guided.

D – Devotional Reading

Proverbs 25 (KJV)
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1 These are also proverbs of Solomon, which the men of Hezekiah king of Judah copied out.
2 It is the glory of God to conceal a thing: but the honour of kings is to search out a matter.
3 The heaven for height, and the earth for depth, and the heart of kings is unsearchable.
4 Take away the dross from the silver, and there shall come forth a vessel for the finer.
5 Take away the wicked from before the king, and his throne shall be established in righteousness.
6 Put not forth thyself in the presence of the king, and stand not in the place of great men:
7 For better it is that it be said unto thee, Come up hither; than that thou shouldest be put lower in the presence of the prince whom thine eyes have seen.
8 Go not forth hastily to strive, lest thou know not what to do in the end thereof, when thy neighbour hath put thee to shame.
9 Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself; and discover not a secret to another:
10 Lest he that heareth it put thee to shame, and thine infamy turn not away.
11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.
12 As an earring of gold, and an ornament of fine gold, so is a wise reprover upon an obedient ear.
13 As the cold of snow in the time of harvest, so is a faithful messenger to them that send him: for he refresheth the soul of his masters.
14 Whoso boasteth himself of a false gift is like clouds and wind without rain.
15 By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone.
16 Hast thou found honey? eat so much as is sufficient for thee, lest thou be filled therewith, and vomit it.
17 Withdraw thy foot from thy neighbour's house; lest he be weary of thee, and so hate thee.
18 A man that beareth false witness against his neighbour is a maul, and a sword, and a sharp arrow.
19 Confidence in an unfaithful man in time of trouble is like a broken tooth, and a foot out of joint.
20 As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an heavy heart.
21 If thine enemy be hungry, give him bread to eat; and if he be thirsty, give him water to drink:
22 For thou shalt heap coals of fire upon his head, and the Lord shall reward thee.
23 The north wind driveth away rain: so doth an angry countenance a backbiting tongue.
24 It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman and in a wide house.
25 As cold waters to a thirsty soul, so is good news from a far country.
26 A righteous man falling down before the wicked is as a troubled fountain, and a corrupt spring.
27 It is not good to eat much honey: so for men to search their own glory is not glory.
28 He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls.

R – Reflection

As I read Proverbs 25, I see the beauty and necessity of humility, patience, and self-control in every area of life. God values restraint more than grand displays of pride. This chapter reminds me that being quiet, wise, and measured brings more honor than being hasty or boastful. Verses like “a word fitly spoken” and “withdraw thy foot from thy neighbor's house” stir me to examine how I speak and interact. It’s easy to push too far—speak too much, visit too often, assert myself too quickly. But Solomon calls me to step back and allow God to elevate me, not myself. Even dealing with enemies calls for grace—not revenge. These instructions confront my pride and urge me to walk in wisdom, not impulsiveness.

I – Instruction

Identify key lessons, commands, or promises to follow or hold onto.
God instructs me to cultivate humility (v6-7), seek peaceful resolutions (v8-10), speak with wisdom (v11), and rule my spirit (v28). He commands that I act graciously even toward my enemies (v21-22), and reminds me of the strength found in soft, patient speech (v15). These aren’t suggestions—they are divine standards for godly living. When I embrace humility and practice self-restraint, I reflect the heart of Christ.

N – Now Live It

Today, I choose to pause before speaking. I will weigh my words, offer grace even when provoked, and resist the urge to promote myself. When conflict arises, I will pursue peace privately and calmly. I commit to ruling my spirit, especially when I feel the urge to react. Whether at work, home, or church, I want others to see in me the quiet strength that Proverbs 25 describes.

K – Kneel in Prayer

Heavenly Father, Thank You for the treasures in Proverbs 25. You know how often I speak when I should be silent, or act before waiting on You. Forgive me, Lord, for my pride and impulsiveness. Teach me to walk humbly, to speak wisely, and to extend grace even when I’m wronged. Help me to rule my spirit and reflect Your character in all I do. Make me like that vessel refined by fire, pure and ready for Your use. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

You may also read our Proverbs 24 Devotional.

What is DRINK Devotional Method?

The DRINK Devotional Method is a structured personal devotional approach designed to help believers engage with Scripture to intentionally walk and grow daily with Christ. Each letter in DRINK stands for a step while doing your silent moment with the scripture:

• D – Devotional Reading: Read the selected Bible passage slowly and reverently (Preferably at least 1 chapter).
• R – Reflection: Meditate on the truths revealed and how they apply to our walk with God.
• I – Instruction: Identify key lessons, commands, or promises to follow or hold onto.
• N – Now Live It: Commit to a specific action or change based on what God has shown.
• K – Kneel in Prayer: Close with a sincere prayer, asking the Lord for grace to live out His Word.

Whether you’re just starting a daily devotional habit or seeking a more meaningful Christian devotional routine, DRINK offers a simple yet powerful guide to draw closer to God and let His Word shape your life.

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